What's Inside

The jar picks

Fill it once. Tap to shake — the ideas tumble around — then draw one at random. Mark it done, or draw again.

Ideas that sound like you

Start with a set of ideas to get going, then add your own. Tag them however you think — Romantic, Cozy, Adventure, Food, Day Trip, Learning — and search or filter when you're after something specific.

Friday's handled

Put an idea on a day and it lands on the calendar. Date night stops being a negotiation on the night.

You'll still have it in five years

After the date, keep it — a photo, the song that was playing, where you were, how it went. The good ones stack up into something worth scrolling back through.

Both of you add to it

Share a jar privately with your partner through iCloud and you both add, both draw, from your own phones. Or publish one and send anybody a link.

Borrow someone else's jar

Browse the jars other couples have published, and take the ideas you like into your own.

When you're out of ideas

Ask for a handful, built around where you are and what you're in the mood for. Or connect Claude and let it build a whole jar straight into your account.

Make it yours

Name the jar anything — a nickname, an inside joke — and pick the jar it lives in. Light or dark, your call.

Date
Night
Jar

“What do you want to do tonight?”
“I don’t know. What do you want to do?”

What's Inside

The jar picks

Ideas that sound like you

Friday's handled

You'll still have it in five years

Both of you add to it

Borrow someone else's jar

When you're out of ideas

Make it yours

Private by Design

DateNightJar

“What do you want to do tonight?”“I don’t know. What do you want to do?”

What's Inside

The jar picks

Ideas that sound like you

Friday's handled

You'll still have it in five years

Both of you add to it

Borrow someone else's jar

When you're out of ideas

Make it yours

Private by Design

Date
Night
Jar

“What do you want to do tonight?”
“I don’t know. What do you want to do?”